Our Lady of Sorrows Fr. Francis Cuthbert Doyle, 1896
I. One of the Wise Man's most pathetic exhortations is, that a son should never forget the travailing and the sorrows of his mother. In order, therefore, that we may bear in mind the bitter anguish which lacerated our Lady's heart, we must reflect today upon that scene of woe in which her seven-fold sorrow culminated, in which the waters rose up around her, and closed over her head in a sea of anguish, such as never before flooded the heart of mortal man.
Jesus hung on the Cross, the outcast of His nation--a mark at which the vile rabble, and their still viler leaders, hurled their bitter taunts, and aimed their clumsy scorn. A galling wreath of thorns circled His head; His eyes were filled with blood; His hands and feet nailed tightly down to the cruel wood. The wickedness of a sinful world pressed heavily upon Him, and its ponderous weight well-nigh crushed Him Who upholds the universe. During His death agony, men scoffed and jeered at Him, taunting Him with impotence, and blaspheming Him most vilely; and all the while there stood by that death-bed of shame, Mary His Mother! He was Her Child; her blood flowed in His veins; her heart beat in unison with His. Those sacred features, now so sadly bruised and disfigured, were the exact counterpart of her own. That head, now crowned with thorns, had often nestled in her bosom. That tongue which now and then spoke through the darkness, had been taught by her to lisp its first accents. Between Him and her there had passed all that interchange of fond affection and tender love which takes place between a mother and the child of her bosom. Add to this the intense love with which she loved Him as her God, and we may truly say, there never could be love between mortal man and God greater than the love which existed between Jesus and Mary. If, then, the natural effect of love is union, and if the greater the love the closer the union, we may form some idea of the agony which the sufferings of Jesus caused her heart. The thorns which made His temples throb with acute pain were as a circle of fire upon her brow. The nails which pierced His hands and feet fastened her also to His Cross. The foul language, the revilings, the scoffings, the blasphemies uttered against Him, were as a hail of fire upon her heart. Verily she was filled with His reproaches, and the revilings of them that reproached Him fell upon her. To what shall we compare her, or to what shall we liken the sorrow of this Virgin daughter of Sion? It is great as the sea. Who shall heal it? 'O! all you that pass by the way, attend and see if there be sorrow like unto her sorrow.' II. As we look at that ocean of sorrow, the bitter waters of which inundate her soul, we are forced to acknowledge that human words are but faint and inadequate symbols by which to indicate its depth and its breadth. Yet, though we may not be able to do this, we may at least turn our eyes with compassionate tenderness upon her, as she stands beneath the Cross, to see how she bears herself under its crushing weight, that so we also may learn how to suffer. There are some to whom misfortune deals a blow so terrific that they are stunned and dazed by it. The insensibility which its violence produces, shields them from feeling the poignancy of the pain. It was not so with Mary. Though the magnitude of her grief surpassed all other human sorrows, yet she did not allow it so to master her as to make her swoon away, and thus be unable to feel the keenness of the sword which wounded and tortured her. Her grief, being calm and self-possessed, was on that very account all the more terrible, all the more bitter, because her mind fully adverted to all the circumstances which aggravated and brought it home more closely to her heart. Not one circumstance of those three cruel hours, during which the Saviour of the world slowly died before her eyes upon His Cross of shame, escaped her notice. Her chalice was indeed a deep and bitter one, but she drained it to the very dregs. She stood beneath that Cross! Yet she was neither hard nor insensible. She sighed and wept, and would not be comforted; but her grief did not overwhelm her. Strong men had fled away from that spectacle. Some had turned away their eyes, that they might not witness the terrible anguish which that mutilated Victim endured. But Mary stood by Him to the end, and her tearful eyes looked up into His pallid face as it sank in death upon His breast. O broken-hearted Mother! by the grief which then wrung thy maternal heart, by the fidelity which made thee stand by the Cross of Jesus, and bravely associate thyself with Him in His hour of ignominy and of pain, pray for us to God, that our hearts may be torn with true contrition for our sins. Mayest thou stand by us in the last hour of our life, and give us courage to pass through the portals of death to the feet of Our Judge. III. From the sorrows of the most holy Mother of God, learn that all sorrow is the effect of sin. The first tears that ever dropped from the eyes of man were wrung from him by the bitter loss which he sustained on account of sin; and every tear that has since fallen, and gone to swell the tide of human woe, has had its origin in sin. Mary had never been guilty of sin. But sin seized upon and murdered her only Child; and therefore sin made her weep, we might almost say, tears of blood, upon the place dyed with the blood which she had given to Jesus Christ. Look back at your life, and call to mind the numberless times in which you have sinned against your Lord. Each of these sins had its share in causing Mary's bitter tears. They helped to strike down that thorny wreath upon the brow of Jesus; to wield the cruel scourge; to dig through the delicate hands and feet; to murder Him upon the Cross. They gave nerve to the executioner's arm, and malice to the hypocritical Scribe, and words of scorn to the rabble that screamed and yelled around the Cross. When, therefore, you contemplate the sorrows of our dearest Mother, fall upon your knees before her, look up into the face of your Saviour, smite your breast, ask pardon for having been the cause of His and of her sufferings; and promise that by resisting evil for the future, and by living a holy life, you will endeavour to blot out the evil of the past. If the merciful but just hand of God should chastise you for your sins by sending you sorrow to wring your heart with anguish, and to draw bitter tears from your eyes--Oh! lift up those eyes to the Cross on which Jesus hangs, beneath which Mary stands, and learn patiently to bear the trial. Weep with her over the work which your hands have done. Those tears are a sweet balsam to the wounds of Jesus; they are a consolation to the heart of His Mother; they are a health-giving fountain which will wash away the filth of sin, 'and heal the stroke of its wound.' Hymn: Our Lady's Compassion--The Foot of the Cross John xix. 26: "He saith to His Mother: Woman, behold thy son. After that, He saith to the disciple: Behold thy mother." Called to my dying Saviour's feet, What patron of His Cross so meet As Thou, whom thence He deigned to greet, My Mother! Sorrow with sorrow loves to dwell, Mourners their tale to mourners tell; Who loves the Cross should love thee well, My Mother! Who loves the Cross from sin will flee, And seek on Calvary to be With Magdalene, and John and thee, My Mother! How couldst thou see thy Son Divine, His head in agony incline? Was ever anguish like to thine, My Mother! How couldst thou hear in patient mood The fierce and frantic multitude, Fling on His ear its taunting rude, My Mother! And think how once thine arms around His infant form in rapture wound, When all thy hopes with bliss were crowned, My Mother! Ah! couldst thou fain forget the past, Nor with its memories contrast This woe--the worst, but not the last, My Mother! The crib where first He drew His breath, The deep repose of Nazareth, Oh! how unlike this bitter death, My Mother! Not from soft couch or gorgeous throne, But from His bed of suffering lone, Did Jesus give thee to His own, My Mother! When wave on wave of sorrow rolled, 'Twas then our loving Lord consoled His mourning son, and said, "Behold Thy Mother!"
INSTRUCTION FOR THE FEAST OF THE SEVEN DOLORS OF THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY [On the Friday before Palm-Sunday.]
This festival is thus named, because the various sufferings Mary endured during her whole life, may be placed under seven heads:
1. Her son's circumcision. 2. The flight into Egypt. 3. The three days He was lost in the temple. 4. When she saw Him carrying His cross. 5. His death. 6. The taking down from the cross. 7. His burial. In continual remembrance of these sorrows, the Church ordered this festival, and for this reason the dolorous mother is represented with one, sometimes with seven swords piercing her heart. PRAYER OF THE CHURCH O God, in whose passion, according to Simeon's prophecy, the sword of grief, pierced the sweet soul of glorious Mary, the Virgin-Mother; grant in Thy mercy, that we, who with honor commemorate her sorrows and sufferings, may be helped by the glorious merits and prayers of all the saints that faithfully stood by Thy cross, so as to partake of the happy fruits of Thy passion. Who liveth etc. LESSON (Judith xiii. 22 - 25.) The Lord hath blessed thee by his power, because by thee he hath brought our enemies to nought. Blessed art thou, O daughter, by the Lord the most high God, above all women upon the earth. Blessed be the Lord who made heaven and earth. Because he hath so magnified thy name this day, that thy praise shall not depart out of the mouth of men, who shall be mindful of the power of the Lord for ever, for that thou hast not spared thy life, by reason of the distress and tribulation of thy people, but hast prevented our ruin in the presence of our God. GOSPEL. (John xix. 25 - 27.) At That Time: There stood by the cross of Jesus, his mother, and his mother's sister, Mary of Cleophas, and Mary Magdalen. When Jesus therefore had seen his mother, and the disciple standing, whom he loved, he saith to his mother: Woman, behold thy son; after that, he saith to the disciple: Behold thy mother. And from that hour the disciple took her to his own. [An indulgence of one hundred days is obtained by repeating with devotion and contrition the following hymn.] STABAT MATER.
At the Cross her station keeping,
Stood the mournful mother weeping, Close to Jesus to the last. Through her heart, His sorrow sharing, All His bitter anguish bearing, Now at length the sword has passed. O, how sad and sore distressed Was that mother highly blessed, Of the sole begotten One! Christ above in torment hangs. She beneath beholds the pangs Of her dying glorious Son. Is there one who would not weep, Whelmed in miseries so deep Christ's dear mother to behold? Can the human heart refrain From partaking in her pain, In that mother's pain untold? Bruised, derided, cursed, defiled, She beheld her tender child All with bloody scourges rent; For the sins of His own nation Saw Him hang in desolation, Till His spirit forth He sent. O thou mother, fount of love! Touch my spirit from above, Make my heart with thine accord: Make me feel as thou hast felt. Make my soul to glow and melt With the love of Christ my Lord. Holy mother, pierce me through, In my heart each wound renew Of my Saviour crucified. Let me share with thee His pain, Who for all my sins was slain, Who for me in torments died. Let me mingle tears with thee. Mourning Him who wourned for me, All the days that I may live: By the Cross with thee to stay, There with thee to weep and pray, Is all I ask of thee to give. Virgin of all virgins blest! Listen to my fond request: Let me share thy grief divine, Let me to my latest breath, In my body bear the death Of that dying Son of thine. Wounded with His every wound, Steep my soul, till it hath swooned In His very blood away; Be to me, O Virgin, nigh, Lest in flames I burn and die, In His awful judgmrnt-day. Christ, when Thou shalt call me hence, Be Thy Mother my defence, Be Thy Cross my victory; While my body here decays, May my soul Thy goodness praise Safe in paradise with Thee. http://catholicharboroffaithandmorals.com/ |